After Michelle tells the men she felt unseen on a group date, Olu realizes he's heard these same feelings before from his own sisters. Tearfully, he relates those struggles to Michelle, who appreciates his own vulnerability, and they both grow closer in that moment. From 'The Bachelorette' season 18, episode 4, 'Week 4.' Watch 'The Bachelorette' Fall 2021 TUESDAYS 8/7c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.