As BacheloretteMichelle Young makes her selections for the final two men, one man is headed home after the Overnight Dates: Joe. Michelle tells him that she knows how hard it was for him to open up to her, but that she can't be his person. From 'The Bachelorette' season 18, episode 9, 'Week 9.' Watch 'The Bachelorette' Fall 2021 TUESDAYS 8/7c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.